My Favorite Tidying Up Trick

Even though the title of this post alludes to me sharing one sole tidying up trick, I promise the post length you’re about to enjoy is necessary to share just how awesome it is. So I preface my post with a yes, this is a long blog post but an even bigger yes, it’s worth the read! If you’re a form and function home goods aficionado like me then this is especially for you (also remember this post? Consider this a follow up of sorts!)

Because I run my business out of our entire basement (and all my very fragile inventory and soap making goodies are down there) we don’t have a dedicated play room in our home much to my disappointment. Right now Lachlan does most his playing outside because the weather allows for it but when the weather gets cold our main living level and his room become his only play space. I can only imagine as Lachlan and his little brother grow and change we may just outgrow the shared living/playing/eating/hosting set up we have now.

We’ve thrown around a couple different scenarios to help keep our home tidy and streamlined while still letting our son’s curiosity and ability to play to meld harmoniously with our desire for order and organization. While many of our ideas have involved more permanent changes, like building a different home and moving, some of our ideas involved changes that we’re just not quite ready to make; for financial reasons or otherwise. Like moving my business out of the home, ditching our guest room in favor of a play room, or even renovating existing parts of our home to add on or convert dead space into usable space. There are a lot of options we’ve explored in this arena!

So earlier this year (ironically enough during an endless cold winter stuck playing in the living room with a busy toddler) I had an epiphany that perhaps the space we have to work with here isn’t the problem but maybe it’s not having a place to put everything that feels bothersome. Anything considered a toy used to just be placed on the floor against the wall in our living room and it always felt like an out of order, messy and chaotic set up fighting for attention in the same space we watch movies, spend time as a family, and host guests and family for holidays.

It just didn’t work for me. And a home that works well is important.

I thought if I could just have a system for storing the things we have and Lachlan loves, then maybe our rhythms would feel more seamless. And perhaps Lachlan would ultimately develop a sense of pride for his belongings, while also learning how to take care of and put away his toys and books when he’s not playing with them.

We looked into a few systems recommended by friends but most were bin and basket style where contents inside were visible from the top. And I didn’t like that. Moreover, a lot of the popular name brand systems were upwards of hundreds of dollars for shoe-rack size set ups, and that was out of the budget. Finally, we tossed around the idea of having built-ins created on either side of the fireplace, something we wanted to do when we built our home in 2011 but wasn’t in the budget, but again, even seven years later, this still wasn’t in the budget. For months it felt like an endless cycle of talking about the corner toy situation in our home!

Then someone mentioned checking out IKEA. And while IKEA can be a bit overwhelming (all of those pieces and endless assembly!) I stumbled upon the BRIMNES line and KNEW it was just what we were looking for. Like a lot of IKEA products, the pieces we selected are part of a larger customizable series of small and large wardrobes, chests, and more. But I was pleasantly surprised to find the series offered us just what we needed in the form of a mid-height cabinet with solid doors, a simple aesthetic and best of all, within our budget.

The cabinets have been the perfect solution for us to help keep toys in a designated area, and more generally, allow our home to feel tidy (and tidy is most definitely different than clean so I’ll save the sentiment for a different day!). Below are some of my thoughts on the cabinets and why we love them so much! And to be crystal clear this is not a sponsored post by any means. I’m one small fish in a sea of many to IKEA. I simply love these cabinets and am happy to share why in hopes they might make a difference in your home too.

1. In the photos above you’ll see two separate cabinets which actually look like one seamless built-in. One cabinet butts up against our fireplace and the one beside it matches up right against our living room wall. In what might be my luckiest stroke of luck ever, the cabinets fit in this space like a glove without my measuring or even thinking it would have been wise to measure the space in comparison to the cabinet widths before purchasing and assembling (a big LOL there). However, they do fit perfectly and as a result, look like they are actually built-ins! They make the space they’re in (our open concept living room and front room) feel really curated and it looks like we have a custom look without the cost and fuss of actual built-ins. The extra space on the top of the cabinets is an added bonus and provides us with space we never had before that’s not kid-height.

2. The cost of the three cabinets was completely within our budget and very reasonable. At $95.00 a piece, for a set of three we spent under $400.00 (considering both taxes and pick up which we outsourced through a local company here since IKEA is 2.5 hours from us). We did the assembly ourselves, I scored some handles on clearance at Hobby Lobby, Andrew anchored the units to our wall, and voila! A functional, affordable, and beautiful solution to our little toy dilemma! Note: the third cabinet is not pictured here but on the other side of the fire place and does not hold toys or children’s books but instead my books, magazines, games and other items we don’t access on a day to day basis. Lachlan very rarely even goes over to that side of the room.

3. We tend to keep toys and books to a healthy minimum here; at least we consider our haul to be a minimum! So while we definitely felt like we needed a system for all of Lachlan’s toys, we certainly didn’t need anything complicated. Our criteria was something average sized and that was an important distinction to clarify! Baskets and bins felt like they would be too small for bigger toys but we didn’t need wall units or closets for things like indoor trampolines or play kitchens (we aren’t there yet). I love that the Brimnes cabinets are a nice middle ground storage solution with adjustable shelves so different sized toys can fit in and with a nice depth that allows for multiple things to be thrown in there easily. Speaking of throwing things in there! That leads me to this:

4. My final win feels a little superficial but I’m owning it! The cabinet doors we picked are solid, meaning when things are put away in the cabinets it doesn’t matter HOW they are put away because their tucked in and hidden. And I love that because I feel like I’ve just done a big clean up when really I’ve tossed everything into one of the two cabinets. It’s like the kids who throw their toys and books and clothes in their closet or under their bed to pretend they’ve cleaned their room. Out of sight and out of mind right? While every once in a blue moon I will organize the toys and books, or get rid of ones Lachlan doesn’t touch anymore, most of the time things are quite literally tossed into the cabinets, the doors shut on them, and all in the span of less than three minutes. I feel like these cabinets let the chaos be out of sight and mind when Lachlan isn’t playing. And when he IS playing, we’re doing it with him and the stuff everywhere is expected and encouraged!

I’ll also add we have a built in bench right in the foyer of our entryway. With the exception of some throw blankets and decorative throw pillows, the bench also houses some of Lachlan’s goodies so he has more real estate here in the living room than just two cabinets! And finally, I’ll be following this post up next week with some of my other favorite tidying hacks in our home because I’m fiercely passionate about having a joyful and imperfect home that can serve a family intentionally but still look really beautiful and curated.

I’d love to hear from you! How do you organize the stuff in your home whether it be your kid’s toys, books, clothing, home office items, kitchenwares or something entirely different? Join the conversation below! Xo

Photos by Samantha James Photography

Lachlan’s Toddler Room and Our In Home Maternity Session

It’s funny how a second pregnancy can feel so different from a first.

Before finding out we were expecting this second baby I heard a lot from friends and even strangers about how different a second pregnancy and baby can be. And I didn’t really understand how vast the differences were until I went through it (and continue to go through it for two more weeks) myself. From different and immediate pregnancy symptoms and feeling like my emotions have been different, to how I and we as a family have physically, emotionally and mentally approached preparations, birth plans, and even future child care arrangements, these last nine months have greatly varied from the nine I spent with Lachlan growing in my belly.

Differences aside, we are beyond excited, really grateful and straight up lucky to be so close to welcoming this sweet second baby boy to our family. Lachlan is very eager to meet his ‘bro-ey’, we feel like the timing is perfect for a second child, and best of all we get to go through the cherished holiday season figuring out new rhythms and systems for our home and growing family.

With that being said, to celebrate the last few weeks we have as a family of three we opted for an in-home maternity session with Kelly Sweet Photography. Just the thought of standing in a field somewhere in a flowy gown, with my hair and make up done, posing for photos with Andrew and Lachlan felt really uncomfortable and out of character. So I asked Kelly if she would simply come and photograph us, as candidly as possible, during an afternoon together in our home being us. The end result not only met my expectations but far exceeded them. We will cherish and adore these images for a lifetime. We love you and give you all the praise, Kelly

Looped into this post is also a peek into Lachlan’s big boy room. His nursery and our family session from when I was 39 weeks pregnant is here if you want to see what the space looked like before. At the beginning of 2018 we were looking to upgrade some of his furniture and because we found out we were pregnant on Valentine’s Day, the exchange of his nursery items into the baby room made perfect sense. We loosely went with a woodland animal theme and a color palette of orange, brown, and yellow. It’s a fun space and we do spend a lot of time up there as a family both in the mornings and before bed time.

Oh! And keeping in line with this post and my promise to share, here’s the inspiration board I created to help put the room together. Minus a few small changes I’m pretty thrilled with the end product and at such a great price too. If I were a toddler I think I’d really like it his room! Lachlan would agree.

Enjoy some of my favorites images and a little slice of our family!

Very often, the black and white images Kelly takes are my favorite. They are always a little grainy (a characteristic of film) but more importantly totally candid because that’s how Kelly approaches her work. These images remind me so much of the ones I’m constantly inspired by on Pinterest, in other’s homes, etc. They are images I can picture Lachlan and his wife, their kiddos, their grandkids, and future generations reflecting back on with admiration decades and decades from now. Perhaps that’s where my love of consistently having our family photographed comes from; the way these images help make legacy a reality in our family and home.

Here are a few of my favorite black and white images.

And I will end with my favorite photo of all, the one below which is already framed in our bedroom

I once read something about always be cognizant of putting yourself in front of the camera regardless of how you look or feel. While the article was more geared towards women the underlying reason is one day your presence in photos will be appreciated and valued. So I’m doing my best to make sure I keep this advice alive in my life, our home, and family so once I leave earthside my spirit, joy, emotions and existence will still be here in a tangible capacity for the ones I love to still feel fulfilled by.

Thanks for reading! All sources tagged below. Xo

Black frame bed, brown chair, brown dresser, pendant light, mini table and chairs set, photo wire: IKEA / Black wire basket, select pillows, pom pom garlands, bear bust, small wood shelves, lamp, bedside table, stuffed animal basket, cardboard letters: Target / Bedding, orange wood fox wall decor, and bear pillow: Crate and Kids / Artwork: MINTED / Large script canvas: House of Belonging / Birch wood shelf: Pottery Barn Kids / Curtains: Pottery Barn (clearance score!) / Rhi’s striped dress: Pink Blush / Wood peg family: Pocketful of Pegs / Teepee: Ashley Gabby now Letterlyy / Area rug: Overstock / Framed prints over our bed: FrameBridge / Photography: Kelly Sweet Photography

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